When you were a kid like me, what kinds of clothes did you wear? What did you notice about what other kids wore? Did you ever get teased about your clothes?
Tell me about your first school dance. Was it scary? Fun?
What language did your parents speak when they were kids? (Remember you are asking grandpa what language his parents spoke.) Did they speak that language to you? What language(s) can you speak?
Tell me about a book that made you see things differently.
Do you ever tell white lies? Can you tell me about some of them?
Tell me about where your ancestors came from? What do you know about these countries? Are you proud of those parts of you?
Did you have friends who were richer or poorer than you? Tell me about visiting their homes. What did you notice?
Can you share a favorite prayer or reflection?
Did your parents have strong feelings about how boys and girls should behave differently? Do you?
What does it mean you need to do when you are a member of a team? What lessons do you learn when you are on a team?